time does fly

i just went to my friend melissa's surprise b-day party last night. We had a blast and scared the crap out of her as she walked in the door. lol. It was funny. as i sit here today I realize just how fast time flies by and if you have a moment to reflect you also see how everything seems so fleeting. nothing lasts long. carpe diem!
if you have not much to look forward to then life becomes a wasteland of opportunity lost. and the longer I live the more I realize that most things have no intrinsic meaning in and of themselves except what meaning we assign them. i also know that memories can lie to us and we can use them to serve us now for better or for worse. choose this day to have them serve for the better.